Looking for romance? Don’t wait for someone else to bring it... create it yourself through Feng Shui as it can enhance your love life and surroundings.

A good place to start is to rid your ‘romance closet’ of past relationship energies and open it to fresh new opportunities. Just as clutter can clog energy movement, when applying Feng Shui on the physical level, your emotional clutter can hold back the positive energy you need to give out to attract a new love in your life.

You might begin by first cleaning out the physical leftovers from past relationships. Look around for toxic things that can pollute a new relationship simply by reminding you of the past one. This may include gifts, cards, photos or possibly large items, like the furniture you shared.

After a long-term, intense relationship has ended, it is always recommended that the first item to be replaced is the bed! This is especially true after a divorce. Think about it... the marital bed? This piece of furniture probably holds the deepest, most intimate energies. It can be difficult to find or maintain a new relationship in a bed that holds the energy of another person. It is also recommended that if you can’t afford to replace the entire bed, then at least replace the mattress. And definitely, please replace all the bedding – buy new pillows, sheets, blankets and bedspread.

Define romance to yourself. Such a definition, for example, may include music.

Music and even dancing is something you can certainly enjoy alone as well as with another person. Pleasant sounds are an excellent way to lift the chi energy, and in doing so will make you feel happier and add a bit of romance to your life.